I'm Fine (But Not Really): What Men Need to Know, Without Going to Therapy

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I'm Fine (But Not Really): What Men Need to Know, Without Going to Therapy

Author(s): Dr Peter Meades (Author)

  • Publisher: Robinson
  • Publication Date: 6 Aug. 2026
  • Language: English
  • Print length: 320 pages
  • ISBN-10: 1408783789
  • ISBN-13: 9781408783788

Book Description

‘Simple, honest advice – a real toolkit for life’ – Jamie Oliver

‘The book women wish men would read’ – Dawn O’Porter


‘If you’ve ever said “I’m fine” when you’re not, this is for you’ – Rick Stein

Modern men are under pressure to be strong, silent and always in control. But what happens when this isn’t true? Drawing on over twenty-five years of clinical experience, Dr Peter Meades confronts the crisis of men’s mental health with unflinching honesty and deep compassion, bringing together real-life stories and straightforward tools to help men make sense of stress, anger and shame.

This groundbreaking guide reveals why men delay seeking help until breaking point, and offers a lifeline: therapy without going to therapy. Through ten transformative insights – covering everything from emotional resilience and trauma recovery to relationship skills and the impact of expectations around ‘masculinity’ – it guides you in mapping your own journey. You’ll find practical exercises designed to help you spot patterns, build self-awareness and take achievable steps toward change.

Written for men who avoid therapy or struggle to talk, this is a resource you can use privately and at your own pace. Discover how to reconnect with your body, manage stress and redefine what strength means – without jargon or judgement. Real change starts with one honest look in the mirror.

Editorial Reviews

Review

Simple, honest advice – a real toolkit for life — Jamie Oliver, writer, presenter and chef

The book women wish men would read — Dawn O’Porter, writer and presenter

This is the kind of book many men wish they’d had years ago. It’s honest, accessible and doesn’t overcomplicate things – it just helps you understand what’s going on and to find a way forward that feels manageable. It cuts through the noise and actually speaks to men in a way that lands. A really important and timely read. It’s certainly a book I wish I’d had earlier in my life – especially as someone who hasn’t always been quick to admit when something’s not right, or to ask for help — Jimmy Doherty, presenter of ‘Jimmy’s Farm’

If you’ve ever said ‘I’m fine’ when you’re not, this is for you — Rick Stein, restaurateur/chef

So many men say they’re fine when they’re not – this book gets it. It’s honest, down-to-earth, and exactly what men need to help them open up and feel better. I think this book will help so many men — Andrew ‘Beef’ Johnson, golfer

If you ever hear a man say ‘I’m fine’ but know he isn’t, this is the best thing you can give him, and read yourself. It’s honest, compassionate and could make all the difference. We have to be there for each other, and this book paves the way — Candice Brown, baker and influencer

Give this jargon-free gem to the men in your life; Peter’s insight is invaluable — Olly Smith, wine expert

Everything men need to know when life feels stuck, without ever setting foot in therapy. Straightforward, relatable, and helps men (and women!) see things in a whole new way — Kat Farmer, fashion influencer

Straight-talking, practical and genuinely useful, without the therapy speak — Raymond Blanc, restaurateur/chef

It is really important that we talk about these things and this book is a really good place to start — Dan Walker, broadcaster and presenter

Every man needs to read this – straight-talking, practical and genuinely useful — Robert Wilson, Chair of Creative Scotland, Co-owner of Nelson’s, Co-founder of X Muse Vodka

Buy this for the men in your life. They may not ask for it, but they need it — Geraldine Dufort-Ravier, Director-General for Human Resources and Security, European Commission

He won’t book a session. He might not read the whole thing. But a few pages of this might just land — Tom Gilbey, The Wine Guy

A powerful and much-needed book. In hospitality we’re always looking after others, this shows you how to look after yourself too. Everyone should read it — José Pizarro, restaurateur/chef

Book Description

The honest, practical guide for men who say ‘I’m fine’ but know something’s missing learn to own your story, understand your emotions, and shape a life that feels true, before reaching crisis.

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