And the Bride Wore White: Seven Truths to Live in Sexual Integrity . . . No Matter Your Past Fourth Edition, New Edition

What others are saying . . .

Dannah has tasted the pain and regret of opening God’s good gift of sex before its proper time. She has also experienced the sweet healing, freedom, and joy of walking in repentance, forgiveness, and grace. Her message is one every teen girl—and each of their moms—needs to hear. I’m so thankful for the way she is allowing God to use her story, grounded in His Word, to speak into the lives of young women. God is using her to speak into the lives of young women in an engaging and powerful way. I wish I could persuade every teen girl—and every mom—to read this book. ~Nancy Leigh DeMoss, co-author with Dannah Gresh of Lies Young Women Believe

Dannah challenges young women to say “yes” to what the white wedding dress represents. In a warm, easy-to-read style, she counters the message of this sex-crazed culture with priceless pearls of truth. ~Mary A. Kassian,author of Girls Gone Wise in a World Gone Wild

I admire Dannah Gresh in so many ways. Her ministry is moving; her writing is relevant; she is a role model to women of all ages and seasons of life. As a survivor, speaker and author on the topic of sexual abuse, I constantly see and hear firsthand the pain of sexually broken and I understand the deep need for Dannah’s message. The re-release of her best-seller And The Bride Wore White is an answer to the cry of our culture. This book is a timeless classic that will bring healing and hope to all generations. ~ Nicole Bromley, speaker & author, oneVOICEenterprises

I first read And The Bride Wore White when it was an unpublished manuscript and I was a freshman in college. I devoured it in a single setting and the lessons I learned made a huge impact on my life. as a woman who has now been married more than a decade I still remember and cherish the lessons Dannah presents in this book. Dannah does what other authors do not by moving beyond God’s call to purity and outlining a plan to make waiting possible and desirable. This book gave me the blueprint to build a pure marriage, a gift that I am eternally grateful for. Consider And The Bride Wore White a must read for every girl who’s ever dreamed of a pure and holy marriage. ~ Erin Davis, author of Graffiti: Learning to See the Art in Ourselves

The loss of virginity is not simply a physical state of being, but effects the emotional, mental and spiritual lives of every girl. Which is why I appreciate Dannah Gresh and her passion to see girls not only value their virginity, but why the ought to do so. With vulnerability, humor and grace, this book provides girls with the tools they need to take ownership of their bodies, minds and hearts. ~ Crystal Renaud, author of Dirty Girls Come Clean

Human sexuality is at the center of most of the bitter cultural struggles being waged in our day. Far too many young women don’t know right from wrong when it comes to their bodies and their minds because they have bought into the low moral standards promoted on television and in contemporary movies and music. In a friendly, personal manner, Dannah Gresh helps her readers understand that sexuality is a beautiful gift from God and that He intends it to be reserved for marriage. I highly recommend And the Bride Wore White to any young woman who wants God’s best for her life. ~ Richard Land, President, Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission & host, For Faith & Family Radio

Dannah has a fresh way of sharing important truths we need to hear. In an age of moral decline even among our church youth, this message is needed now more than ever. Give Dannah your ear. You won’t be disappointed. ~ Anita Lustrea, host/producer, Midday Connection

As a mother of two teenage daughters, I cannot think of any book more beautifully inspiring than And the Bride Wore White. My daughters loved Dannah’s insights, her humor, and her call for a life without regrets. I am deeply grateful for the realistic role model she is for my daughters…She has changed their lives, and in doing so she has changed mine. ~ Tammy Maltby, author and co-host of Emmy-nominated Aspiring Women

“You are a sexual being. But contrary to what the world says, your sexuality is ultimately not about you. Nor is it—as some seem to suggest—about following a legalistic set of rules and regulations. In this book, Dannah Gresh challenges both sexual license and legalism. She presents a holy, redeemed, joy-filled view of sexuality that will challenge and inspire you to faithfully tell the story that God created you to tell.”
—Mary A. Kassian, bestselling author of Girls Gone Wise

“I am thrilled that Dannah has created an updated edition of this book to help a whole new generation of women. This is the most hope-filled and grace-filled book I have read on this topic. No matter what your story was up to this point, this message will meet you where you are and show you that your story is His going forward. I particularly loved the emphasis on biblical discipleship and mentoring relationships; walking alongside others who are ahead of us is so vital for learning and growth as we continue our walk with God.”
—Shaunti Feldhahn, social researcher and bestselling author of For Women Only and Find Rest

“Dannah helps reframe the narrative around purity, changing from the cultural lies, shame, and disqualification to a biblical call to holiness. These chapters navigate the missteps of sexuality before or after they happen.”
—Ron Hunter Jr, PhD, CEO of D6 Family Ministry; author of several books, including The DNA of D6 and Recalibrate: A New Measure for Family Ministry

“As a married woman who carries scars from the legalism and shame that came from distortions of the truth within the Christian purity culture, I ended this book in tears of gratitude. With humility and grace, Dannah not only exposes the false narratives of sex and purity in both our world and churches, but she magnifies the beautiful and freeing truth of seeking God’s design for spiritual and sexual holiness and healing—not through perfection or self-will but through gospel grace.”
—Sarah Walton, coauthor of Hope When It Hurts, Together Through the Storms, and He Gives More Grace

“The renewed release of And the Bride Wore White could not come at a more important moment. In a culture saturated with distorted messages about sex, Dannah Gresh points clearly to God’s eternal truth while extending the mercy of the gospel to those who have stumbled. Her honesty, theological depth, and compassionate heart make this book a trustworthy guide for young women seeking both freedom and holiness. She presses us to find our identity and satisfaction in Christ. This is a message families, churches, and university campuses urgently need.”
—Thomas White, PhD, President, Cedarville University

“God has called His children to holiness, and this is a powerful book for any woman that seeks to honor God with her sexuality in these challenging times. Dannah is grounded in solid biblical truths and communicates with wisdom, sensitivity, and compassion. A must-read for women committed to living out their faith with godliness and grace.”
—Laura Gonzalez-De-Chavez, Director, Aviva Nuestros Corazones

“I was a high school freshman when I read the first edition of And the Bride Wore White, and the truths Dannah highlighted radically impacted my decisions in romantic relationships and my pursuit of Jesus. Now, two decades later, I could not be more excited that Dannah has updated this book—keeping the same solid biblical content and adding in much-needed sections on homosexuality, transgenderism, pornography, and social media use. This is a book I recommend for all Christian young women seeking to honor God with their sexuality.”
—Elizabeth Urbanowicz, Founder of Foundation Worldview

“Girls are being inundated for hours and hours every day by social media with confusing and harmful messages about sexuality. No wonder saving yourself for marriage sounds unreasonable, legalistic, and terribly naive to many young women. In this timely book, Dannah shows from Scripture and her own life the timeless value of respecting your body, honoring God with your whole being, and accepting the grace of God when you need a do-over.”
—Arlene Pellicane, author of Parents Rising and host of the Happy Home podcast

“As someone who once struggled to maintain sexual purity and later wrestled with the weight of shame (even after coming to Christ), I deeply appreciate Dannah’s compassionate, biblically grounded approach to this delicate topic. And the Bride Wore White offers women the grace-filled wisdom they need to navigate a world full of conflicting messages about sex and identity. Dannah’s heart for Jesus and the next generation shines brightly through her life, ministry, and writing. I pray that this resource will bless many and better equip them to engage wisely and biblically in conversations surrounding sexual ethics.”
—Portia Collins, author, Bible teacher, founder of She Shall Be Called, Inc.

“For the young woman wondering how to navigate dating relationships or wishing she had made different choices or worrying that her past mistakes have ruined her future, this book is a must-read. Dannah tenderly and compassionately invites young women to realize how cherished they are by the Father. With honesty and openness of her own struggle to follow Jesus, she reminds every reader of her inestimable worth as a daughter of God and the dignity she holds. And an important truth: neither can be taken from her no matter what life has brought. For the young woman wanting to understand God’s design for sex in a culture that tries to debase it to nothing more than physical desire, here is your guide. Dannah provides practical help with scriptural examples wrapped up in grace. This book is a gift to a generation of young women seeking true love.”
—Erica Wiggenhorn, Bible teacher and author of An Unexpected Revival: Experiencing God’s Goodness Through Disappointment and Doubt

“And the Bride Wore White is a deeply relevant exploration of Bible-based sexual purity and modesty. Dannah navigates the complexities of presenting God’s Word against the backdrop of both secular and church culture, unfolding truth and transparency through a heart of compassion and grace. This is a must-read for women of all ages and walks of life in this critical time.”
—Stephanie Martinez, worship leader

“What makes And the Bride Wore White so powerful is the way Dannah transmits not only God’s truths regarding sexuality, but His heart. And that is exactly what makes this book a timeless gem.”
—Lisa Yabra de Villanueva, Wonder & Chica Verdadera contributor

“And the Bride Wore White profoundly impacted my life as a fourteen-year-old girl navigating one of the darkest seasons of my life. Reading it showed me not only the love of Jesus but helped me find Jesus-centered community where my deep healing began. I am forever grateful for Dannah and this book. Jesus used both the original book and Dannah to redirect my life from a broken teenager on the brink of despair to a flourishing individual who loves Jesus, and who is now loving life as a wife, mother and minister of the Gospel.”
—Jennifer Dean, wife, mama, credentialed minister, and founder of Called to the Nations

“In these confusing times, issues like sexuality, gender, and love are under constant attack. Dannah offers a heartfelt and transparent conversation, pointing us to Jesus, the gospel, and the power of God’s Word and grace. This book is a timely and practical guide for those seeking truth in a world filled with lies.”
—Patricia Acebal de Saladin,Aviva Nuestros Corazones, radio host, and coproducer

“I grew up during the peak of the purity movement, a time when many of us were taught to treasure purity but sometimes with a heavier emphasis on rules than on grace. While some elements of that movement were unhelpful, the core truth remains: God calls us to live in purity. In And the Bride Wore White, Dannah Gresh masterfully preserves everything valuable about that call—the beauty of honoring God with our bodies and relationships—while gently stripping away the parts that can feel legalistic. Through her own story and heartfelt insight, she equips readers with both biblical truth and practical wisdom for walking in sexual integrity and hope, no matter their past. This is a wonderful book that I believe can benefit all believers—whether you’re revisiting these themes as a parent, a mentor, or someone pursuing Christ-centered holiness yourself. I hope you will read it!”
—Joy White, ThM, MDiv, Assistant Professor of Women’s Studies, Cedarville University